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Disclaimer: If you are struggling with serious emotional distress, please seek professional help.

Read with open mind the tone is intentionally blunt, raw and direct.

Hello loser,

Let's talk.

It seems you think you’re worthless. That's adorable.

Be very honest, I won’t tell anyone. You like this narrative, don’t you?

It’s easier this way.

Calling yourself worthless saves you from trying.

By the way, here is an award from me for being the most tragically ignored person alive.

Go ahead—let the tears fall :'(

Sorry, reader, I was just setting the mood.

I hope that didn’t offend you.

Let me be very real with you: we all have those moments; we often feel worthless, weak, and incapable.

According to me, there can be multiple reasons.

Your childhood
Failures
You are currently in your nadir (the lowest or worst point, a period of great adversity or despair)
Emotional instability (Cuz the meaning of stability keeps on changing as we grow and experience life.)

Maybe this is something a mental health expert can help you with.

But if you need a few mental models Please continue reading.

First of all, take a deep breath and calm down a bit.

Trust me, there will be a point in your life if you make right decisions, if you work hard, if you are able to handle stress, and if you are able to smile at the difficulties of life.

One day, you will fall in love with yourself.

We always wonder how these so-called extraordinary people manage to achieve all this success.

You may disagree, but they are just doing ordinary stuff in an extraordinary manner.

There is a possibility that you might argue that you are dumb.

Maybe that’s true.

But that’s the crux; that’s simply a belief that is working against you.

Our beliefs must work for us, not against us.

Optimize the process in the journey, and one last thing: when you become better.

Don’t assume that you are good because "Our assumption that we are good gets in the way of greatness."

Ending this blog by tossing a quote: “Self-worth is not something that can be given to you by other, it is something that you build for yourself”.

Signing out

Peace:)

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